Is your recovery from porn like Groundhog Day?

Are you living the same freakin' day over and over?

Failure after failure.

The last time you promised yourself you would do something different. But here you are again.

Your wife is not happy. (That is if she even knows about it.)

Your confidence is shot. When you do have sex you have trouble keeping hard.

And it's getting worse. You think about it more. And the stuff you get off on is getting more intense.

Then there's the shame after. That's getting worse too.

The porn is a rush when you're going 60 miles an hour towards it. But when you crash and are picking up the pieces- LIFE SUCKS.

For years I lived like this...

I was alone in my struggle and could not get to even 7 days of sobriety. I tried lots of things, but nothing lasted.

I'll be honest... when I started I was scared of losing my wife.

I was in denial. Like the frog in the slow boiling pot. I didn't know how bad it had truly gotten. After many years of floundering, I discovered how to live completely porn free.

There are 5 Steps to living completely porn free.
The first one you probably already have...

1. Awareness
Waking up to the true reality of your situation with porn. The other four I can teach you.

Through my podcast, Pornfree Radio, I reach thousands of men each week.  I recently surveyed some of my listeners. I ask them what their #1 problem is with quitting porn. Which of these sound like you?

 

  • I have a lot of difficulty letting people into this part of my life
  • Being honest about my struggle
  • Finding an accountability partner that holds me accountable
  • Finding a group with people who are trying to move forward and not saying "I'm ok... you're ok”
  • I'm the only one in my circle that struggles and wants to be free
  • No one to journey with to recovery

There is a common theme here.  You need a strong group to support recovery. A group where you can't hide and everyone is rowing in the same direction.

2. Connection
The second step to being porn free is on-going connection and its the single most powerful action you can take. You need others to recover and the next three steps depend upon this connection. This can be in a recovery group or with a strong accountability partner.

3. Plan
A plan is a summary of habits, tools, and active commitments you need to keep to stay porn free. Your experience and triggers are likely different than other guys you know. You may be more sensitive to certain environments and feelings. That's why your plan is unique. To be effective, it must identify your weakness and build on your strengths.

4. Action
Your plan is activated by others. We need to make ourselves accountable. We need to know that our commitment and follow through matters.

5. Review
We need to review our activities in recovery and report unsound activity on a regular basis. Our on-going connection helps create an environment of continual improvement.

Review leads to more Awareness which re-ignites the process. That's how we get past this.

But these steps are meaningless if you're in this alone. You need the right people in your life to get off of the hamster wheel with porn.

 

Introducing REV Group Coaching

I created REV group coaching for men who need more connection. REV stands for revolution. In order for you to get free from porn you need to do things differently. You know the definition of insanity don't you? Doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results. Stop doing this on your own.

REV group coaching is weekly group coaching. It's confidential with high accountability. We meet through secure video conference. Each group is led personally by me. And I bring my experience, coaching and leading men for over 12 years on every call.

 

REV Group Coaching

You will:

  • Join a group of like-minded men on the journey
  • Define your motivation for going porn free
  • Build your customized recovery plan
  • Get the feedback and accountability you have been lacking
  • Grow with others and experience team work in recovery

REV gave me concrete tools and put me into a community willing to hear me and hold me accountable...Matt has deep insights to the addiction and cares for those in his program. His feedback was "right on target." I would recommend REV for anyone but most particularly those who are stuck.

Larry, 74 year old married man, retired

The REV group is the first time I felt like I could talk about my experiences in a judgement free place. Sharing and hearing the guys stories and struggles helps me learn and understand my own relationship with porn... I highly, highly, highly recommend REV coaching to guys without a solid support group. It has changed the game for me.

Patrick, 26 year old man with a long term girlfriend

REV Changed the Game

Guys have described this group as a game changer. "The best thing they have ever done in recovery." They have had real results also. I just a got a note today from a guy who just celebrating 150 days porn free. The group has made the difference. You could be next.

Apply today to join REV.

Take hope and take action,

Matt Dobschuetz
Coach and Host of Pornfree Radio

REV Group Coaching

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$297Renewable Monthly
Your application does commit you to the group. Upon acceptance you will be given further instructions. A minimum 3-Month group commitment is required for new members.
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Includes:

  • Weekly Group Coaching for Men with Matt Dobschuetz (60 Minutes)
  • Secure Video Conference (Phone Dial-in Also Available)
  • Group Limit: 6 Men
  • Daily Check-ins via rTribe (Optional)
  • Includes lifetime access to Your Porn Free Playbook ($197 Value)
  • Private Group Coaching Online Community (Coaching Cloud)
REV Group Coaching Plus

Weekly Group Coaching plus a monthly session of 1-on-1 coaching

$397Renewable Monthly
Your application does commit you to the group. Upon acceptance you will be given further instructions. A minimum 3-Month group commitment is required for new members.
Apply Now

Includes:

  • Weekly Group Coaching for Men with Matt Dobschuetz (60 Minutes)
  • Secure Video Conference (Phone Dial-in Also Available)
  • Group Limit: 6 Men
  • Daily Check-ins via rTribe (Optional)
  • Includes lifetime access to Your Porn Free Playbook ($197 Value)
  • Private Group Coaching Online Community (Coaching Cloud)

Are you 100% porn free?

My bottom lines are: no pornography, no fantasy, and no masturbation. I have maintained this for over 6 years following a personalized plan designed for me. I have also eliminated other nagging habits such as: Google image searches, YouTube Surfing, trying to circumvent filters, and objectifying women in public.

Is this group confidential?

The REV group is  for men serious about recovery. Each man agrees to keep the confidentiality of the group. Group sessions are not recorded. You also can control what and how much you disclose. (Example: your location, occupation, etc.)

Why does it cost $297?

REV Group Coaching is an investment in your self care and recovery. It ensures your commitment and attention. Each man in the group has invested which creates a higher level of safety and commitment.

“Will I be able to talk with you directly?”

I am on every call and give my feedback and input along with the other men. We have group check-ins each week, plus you will have dedicated hot seats where you get personal attention. If you need additional support building your plan upgrade to REV Group Coaching Plus which includes one 60-minute session a month of 1-on-1 coaching.

“Can you guarantee recovery?”

The answer is simple. If you will honestly face the truth about yourself and your addiction; if you will depend on the help and support of others; if you commit to a plan and the habit of ruthless honesty; and, most important, if you are willing to give up trying to solve this on your own. I believe you can indeed join the ranks of those who recover.

For questions, contact me at matt@recoveredman.com.

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