Host of the Porn Free Radio Podcast
Author of Porn Free: Becoming The Type Of Man Who Does Not Look At Porn
Host of the Porn Free Radio Podcast
Author of Porn Free: Becoming The Type Of Man Who Does Not Look At Porn
I get it.
The first time I saw porn I was eight years old. I was at a gas station with a mini-mart. While my grandmother was filling up, I walked into the store and grabbed a strange magazine from the top rack.
On the first page I opened to, I saw an adult woman on a bed naked. It was exhilarating. I’d never seen anything like it.
My first thought was I had to keep this a secret. My second thought was — how could I see more of this.
As I grew older my porn use expanded with more magazines, late-night cable tv, videos, and the internet. As a teen I began to pair porn with masturbation and the habit was set.
It became my go-to escape from boredom, loneliness, and just about any other emotion in my life.
This pattern continued into my marriage. Soon I was in my 30s, living in fear, feeling like a fraud.
All I ever knew was being ashamed of my porn use. And I assumed I’d stay that way forever.
Ever feel like PornHub is the answer to all life’s challenges?
Tired? Do a search.
Angry? Find something new and exciting.
Lonely? Open up a few more tabs.
Maybe you feel hopeless or believe you cannot change.
You feel out of control. Yet, the idea of life without porn is scary. Porn is how you deal with stress.
I get it because that was my life for years.
I couldn’t go more than a week without going back to it.
I was living a divided life between the nice guy, I showed people, and the obsessed porn guy who lived in the shadows.
I felt like a failure, yet saw no way out.
Until my biggest fear came true. I was CAUGHT.
In 2001, my wife discovered me downloading pornography. My secret exposed. She was hurt but incredibly gracious, urging me to get help.
I didn’t want to continue this in my married life. I wanted real intimacy and freedom.
I wanted something different.
At first, fear motivated me to change. I didn’t want to disappoint my wife.
But I slowly realized I wanted to feel good. To feel proud. I wanted control and self confidence.
But I committed to real changes. For the first time, I was honest.
My first support group was a Christian group focusing on identity. It concentrated on who we were becoming and where we were going, not where we’d been.
That, I could handle.
As my new identity took shape, new habits formed. I committed to going to bed with my wife each night, avoiding the freedom to stay up late.
I committed to honesty — a no-secrets policy with my wife.
Real change took time and I made lots of mistakes. But with each failure, I improved, adopting new tools and habits. They became my new normal. The byproduct? Porn-free days.
Since 2011, I’ve been 100% porn-free. It’s been over a decade. Over this time, I came to a powerful conclusion; Porn was a solution for me not the problem.
Deep down I felt unlovable. This belief was the root of my porn addiction. When I felt bad about myself or disappointed with life, I used porn to feel good-enough.
I’m just like you.
A guy who wanted to quit porn and be the same on the inside and on the outside. I wanted to be the same guy when no one was looking.
Today, I’m on a mission to ensure YOU have what you need to change your life. You deserve freedom, happiness, and most of all – hope. You can be 100% porn-free.
I’ve helped thousands change their relationship with porn and take back control.
Now it’s your turn to take action.
You in?
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