360 – Advanced Recovery pt. 2: Identity and Performance w/ Dick Ryan

Author Dick Ryan, joins us for part 2 of a 3-part series on advanced recovery. In this episode Dick, a musician by trade, shares from his experience mentoring performing artists. He addresses an issue all too common among artists: the problem of defining your identity by your performance. This concept is not just for artists. […]
359 – Advanced Recovery Pt. 1: D.I.R.E. Traits w/ Hope Ray

Hope Ray, L.P.C., joins us for part 1 of a 3-part series on advanced recovery. In this episode, Hope discusses her new program for men, called Getting D.I.R.E. Straight. The program addresses four maladaptive traits (Detachment, Incongruence, Regression, and Entitlement) that can negatively impact relationships even after sobriety is achieved. Resources: Learn More About Hope […]
358 – Real Guys Living Porn Free 3 Yrs And Beyond (Roman, Steve, & Nathan)

Matt is joined in-studio for a conversation with three PFR listeners who are all living porn free; Roman (3 Years), Steve (7 yrs), and Nathan (8yrs.) In this hope-filled episode, the guys share their recovery stories and the habits that have gotten them this far. A key factor in their success is belonging to a […]
357 – The 2025 NFL Preview Show

The Porn Free Radio Podcast Network presents the 2023 NFL Preview Show with Vern Tompke, Aaron W., Matt “The Dobber” Dobschuetz and your host, Sammy D (Sam Dobschuetz.)
Join three coaches for our third annual episode about our shared passion, NFL football.
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356 – Expense vs. Investment

Lee Cockerell was Disney World’s Executive Vice President of Operations for over a decade. There he oversaw the daily operations and guest experience for all of its theme parks, hotels, and properties. He is often brought in to an organization looking to improve its customer service. He famously once told a potential client, “If you […]
355 – Intention Vs. Commitment

Steve Chandler from episode 274 wrote this, “Many people I work with make the mistake of confusing commitment with intention. They think they’re the same thing. And by thinking that, by living in that misunderstanding, they lose all the power commitment has.” Sam Dobschuetz joins this episode to discuss the distinction between intention and commitment. […]
354 – Don’t Just Change What You’re Doing. Change Who You’re Being.

The whole point of this podcast is not just to change what you’re doing. It’s to change who you are being. For that, we look at repetition and beliefs. In this episode we discuss how the our identity is shaped by our habits. And how the identity we choose determines the habits we need to […]
353 – The Surprising Way To Meet Almost Any Need

We often say that porn is not the problem, it’s the solution. And when we let go of porn we are left with one thing: our needs. But just how do we get our needs met? On this episode, I share a counterintuitive approach, you can use, to meet almost any need. Work with me […]
352 – Potential Vs. Capacity

Have you ever felt guilty that you have not lived up to your potential? That because of your past something you were destined for will never be achieved. On this episode, we reframe this mindset with a hopeful alternative where nothing has been lost and even more is to be gained.
351 – Freedom Questions

This episode is a fast follow-up to PFR 350- Pure Freedom, where we discuss Rich Litvin’s “three distinctions around freedom.” He writes: “Most people are seeking Freedom From. “If only I was free from this job, this wife, this boss, this husband, this life…” Beyond that comes Freedom To. The freedom to be creative, the […]